Mistakes Women Make With Men
ByWomen go through phases in dating men where they wonder about the status of the relationship. The woman becomes antsy, the man gets distant. And this leads to the biggest mistake a woman can make with a man. The following are the top ways to turn off your guy.
- You start a conversation about the relationship and then you let him have it!
- You dump all your desires, fears, frustrations and dreams…poured out in one big emotional explosion.
- Complaining about the current state of the relationship
- Talking about the things he does wrong with you.
- Showing your frustrations about what you feel is missing
- Becoming upset that he doesn’t feel how you’d like him to feel
- Bringing up past issues, arguments or disappointments
The arguing and yelling only creates a lot of emotional tension and “drama”. Especially in the guys mind. This is THE LAST THING you want to do with a man. That tension that’s created stays with him, and he NEVER forgets it. In his mind, he now thinks of you as “hysterical” and full of issues. His mind defines you by what he saw in your behavior, and it scares him.
Men are CLUELESS when it comes to figuring out the things that are “obvious” to women in dating and relationships. It’s important to remember to take on the perspective of talking about what you want AND what HE wants. If you can make a guy feel like you put his feelings and needs first in this conversation, and always consider what he wants, I promise he will LOVE YOU for it!
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