Apr
18

Ten Reasons Single Moms are the Best Dates For Single Dads

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One of the singles blogs was discussing a single dad’s frustration with dating and the difficulty of dating single women who were not a parent and finding dates.  Here are some items to consider. Anyone with a variety of dating experience, has come to the realization that there are many differences between a single woman without children dating a single dad versus a dating man without children:

  1. Many single, childless women immediately cross you off their list when they found out that you had kids.
  2. When you date a single dad, his children are his first priority (and if they aren’t he isn’t worth dating). That is hard for a woman who has no children, and is used to being the most important thing in her partner’s life. No matter what their age, ‘single women’ just can not ‘compete’ with a young child.
  3. Women often become very attached to the children, and it can be quite hard to leave them if things don’t work out.
  4. It is hard to do spontaneous, romantic things when your partner has custody of children.
  5. A single dad has to deal with an ex-wife and have frequent communication with for the sake of the child/ren.
  6. Love and building a relationship is emotionally and time consuming & becomes confusing when bringing kids from another relationship into the picture.  For many single women, the thought of raising ‘other people’s children’ is both much too confusing & generally a turn off.  Many single women are just not ‘ready’ to become an ‘instant’ mommy.
  7. Some women actually do not like kids, not now, not ever.
  8. When there are children from another relationship, a good part of your time is spent double dating with the children and not romancing and flirting.
  9. Time:Single dads have to deal with child custody arrangements, and childcare schedules, so there are just less times when they are available to play or go out on the town.those of us who are parents can at times be considered a bit of a drag by our childless friends.There is less flexibility and the certainty that you will have to work around his schedule, because he’s the one with the child. There is also the fact that you have to be understanding that he has to spend time with his child, and that he may not have money to spend on you because he’s paying child support, or he will be tired and not want to go out because he was up with his sick child the night before. Single dads have to leave their phone on all the time because it may be his ex calling about their kid.He may cancel plans with to accommodate his child or sometimes his ex who may need a favor
  10. It’s difficult to deal with the breakup and also realize you’re never going to be able to see the kids again if it doesn’t work out with the single dad.

The best option for a single dad is finding a great single mom, who will understand and appreciate all of child’s needs, or on childless women past their childbearing years, who would prefer to be a stepmother than having their own biological children. You may be a great guy, and good looking, but most childless women would rather be with a guy that they could create their own family with, without all of the problems caused when you try to blend families. A woman wants to be first in a relationship, and it’s hard enough when you meet people who are workaholics or sports fanatics, add “parent” to that list and you have virtually no quality time.

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