Jan
18

Ten Ways to Tell You are Dating a Guy Who is Just Not Into You

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Do you wonder if he really likes you? Here are ten ways to tell if he’s just not into you. Before you check out the list, what happens if you’re just not that into him?

He never makes plans in advance
If he really wanted to see you, do you really think he would keep calling you on Friday to make plans for Saturday?

He talks too much about an ex-girlfriend or still talks to the ex-girlfriend.
It’s okay to reminisce about a past relationship, but if it’s all he talks about, could it be he’s not over her yet? If he is talking to her, why….he is supposed to be talking to you.

He won’t talk about the future
We’re not talking about ultimatums here or putting undue pressure on the guy.
But if he refuses to discuss where things are headed, then can you really count on him to be the one?

He doesn’t plan anything for special occasions
If your birthday is coming up or Valentine’s Day and it’s not on his radar screen, do you think your happiness is top of mind for him?

He lets you do all the work
It’s okay to plan some of the dates, but if you only see each other when you make it happen, then can he really claim to be committed to the relationship? If he isn’t romancing you, it’s one sided.

He’s not clear about your status with friends and family
Does he tell you that you’re his girlfriend but say something different in front of friends and family, like we’re just close friends?

He’s overly guarded about cell phone and email messages
People who hide nothing have nothing to hide. Why would he be so protective about messages if he had nothing to hide?

He has no interest in your friends and family and won’t bring you around his friends and family. If this relationship has a future, at some point he’ll have to establish relationships with the people important in your life. If he’s not interested in meeting your friends and family, could it be he doesn’t expect to be around too long? Does he include you around his friends and family. Or does he tell you he is exclusive with you while he is still searching for someone else while hanging with friends.

He cancels on you all the time
Making plans is great but not if they’re constantly canceled by him. What could possibly come up every weekend that he cancels his plans with you to do something else.

He doesn’t plan vacations with you.
He plans all vacation time with his friends or his family and doesn’t include you. A guy that wants to be with you will plan a romantic getaway for some alone time.

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