Women:

1. You date men who aren't completely available.
2. You become physically intimate BEFORE being emotionally and intellectually connected.
3. You judge men by the size of their wallet instead of the size of their heart.
4. You often fall in love with a man's potential.
5. You pressure men into commitments.
6. You believe that having a "no good man" is better than no man at all.
7. You act like someone you aren't to get a man and then the real you has difficulty keeping him.
8. You ignored warning signs of possible problems.
9. You focused on a man's personality instead of his character.
10. You didn't ask enough questions (or the right questions) to really know who you were getting involved with.

Men:

1. You date women who aren't completely available or need rescuing.
2. You become physically intimate BEFORE being emotionally and intellectually connected.
3. You judge women by the their looks, their face, breasts, but and body size, instead of the size of their heart.
4. You often fall in love with a women's motherly qualities.
5. You pressure flaunt your job, your wallet, etc to hook a woman.
6. You believe that having a "any women" is better than no woman at all.
7. You act like someone you aren't to get a woman and then the real you has difficulty keeping her.
8. You ignored warning signs of possible problems.
9. You focused on a women's personality instead of her character.
10. You didn't ask enough questions (or the right questions) to really know who you were getting involved with.

If you have a history of any of these behavior patterns you may want to visit with a local relationship coach to talk about ways you can change your attitudes and behavior before you go out meeting new people.  Once you have resolved these attitudes/patterns, go slowly.  Start by filtering potential dates online.

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