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Ashville
Top 10 tips to attract a man
By Elsa Weidman
Match
Once your loser boyfriend left your life, you figured it was time to
celebrate. Go out with the girls, live it up, have some "me" time.
Well, it's been about six months, and if you have to read one more article
called "I Will Survive," you're going to scream.
Immediately after a break up, women often feel empowered. Well, depressed
and fat first, but then empowered. They're ready for independence and
"girl power." Friends begin ending phone conversations with "You go,
girl!" And you even find yourself repeatedly saying, "I don't even want
a boyfriend right now."
Sure you don't. And if you're happy sitting on the couch, cuddling up to
your two cats, Bo and Luke, then don't bother reading any further. But if
you're ready to get out there again, you're gonna need some ammo. Consider
these 10 tips when attracting a man:
- Work it. You know what I mean: I'm talking about you and your fear of skin. Show
a little. I don't mean Julia Roberts in Erin Brockovich, but
maybe something from her Mystic Pizza days.
- Work out. Did I mention that Tip #1 is contingent upon
the success of Tip #2? If you don't work out, you can't work it. Get
yourself on the elliptical a few times a week, and not only will you
look better in your new, revealing wardrobe, but you'll feel better and
exude confidence.
- Shut up. Enough with the long stories already. First
meetings call for shallow conversation, not your memoirs.
- Be mysterious. This is the 21st century version of playing
hard to get. Girls in the 20th century took this too far — never acting
interested, never calling back… You know who you are. These days, hold
back some information. Don't divulge the details of your brief stint as
Tori Spelling's personal assistant; just allude to it. He'll be begging
for more.
- No scowling. My gorgeous friend Miranda is a scowler.
Scowls at everyone in the place. When she asks, "Why can't I get a guy?"
our friends tell her she intimidates men. She looks like a bitch. No one
will tell her so I'm telling you.
- Show your smarts. Acting ditzy is like so 1996. You watch CNN.
Dazzle him with your knowledge of the Nasdaq, not Nickelodeon.
- Be seen. You've got a VCR, probably even Tivo. You
can tape ER. Just get out there and let the world know you're
available … without looking available. Make him say, "Who's that girl I
keep seeing around? She certainly looks mysterious and smart."
- Network. You may think your best friend's boyfriend
is a waste of time, but don't count him out. No, I don't mean steal him
— talk to him. Talk to all guys even if they're taken. They have
friends, co-workers and second cousins. And they have much better taste
than your girlfriends.
- Graduate from seventh grade. Hey, you're an adult. Don't giggle with your
friends and send one of them over to tell the guy you think he's fine. I
don't care how many tequila shots you've had. You wouldn't write his
name on your book covers, would you?
- If all else fails, girl, make the move. Why should we always leave it up
to them? If you've followed the first nine tips, then you just may have
the confidence to approach the guy yourself. What's the worst that could
happen? Wait; don't answer that.
If these 10 tips don't help you, perhaps
it's halitosis or some unwanted facial hair issues that you need to deal
with. Otherwise, this could be the advice to finally catapult you off that
couch. Start a
quick search today to find your dream man. You go, girl!
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What are some other ways to meet Singles
in Ashville? Go to as many singles events as you can. Variety
is the key. Don't focus on any one type of group.
First: Meet young single professionals
at fundraisers, singles charity and civic organizations.
Second: Join sports leagues, singles
hiking, biking, outdoors, or adventures clubs.
Third: Join a church or religious
group for Jewish, Catholic, or Singles. Also check out singles cruises and
travel.
Newly divorced or single parent? Get
help at a singles support or divorce recovery group.
What about online dating? Check out
the information on Singlesonthego.com to learn how to place personal ads to
meet single men and women online. You'll also find great dating advice for
online personals and meeting singles by using various dating services,
dating agencies, matchmakers, introductions services. Go ahead, you can do
it!.....check out the singles scene in your area to find a new relationship
today! Check out the list of online dating services above categorized by
general, foreign/ethnic, religious, alternative, senior and single parents.
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