Virginia Singles Dating
7 secrets to win the dating game
When you find yourself suddenly single and your dating skills can't
compare to all the competition, beware:
It's a real jungle out there.
Fortunately you still can find good guys
and gals hiding in the underbrush. Read on, fearless traveler, as fellow
online daters guide you through their best, quickest and surest shortcuts
to romantic success!
Use the power of the past
Here's a familiar story: After one marriage and
several boyfriends later, Judy found herself in the same heartbreaking,
destructive relationships. "Insanity," it's said, "is doing the same
thing over and over and expecting different results."
Stop the insanity by using the power of your past experiences. Take the
time to review and learn from your past mistakes. Even get some feedback
from friends. Then make positive changes in your future dating
Judy finally stopped the insanity by sitting down to really look at the
choices she'd made. When she became aware of her attraction to the wrong
kind of guy, she began making changes and choices necessary for her to
find a fulfilling, lasting relationship.
- Make your
list and stick to it If you don't know
what you want, how can you hope to win the dating game?
Decide what you really want from your dating journey. Many
Match.com singles at least want to meet good friends and start an active
social life. Almost all want to reach the ultimate dream of finding
their soul mate. They recommend that you make your own personal list of
exactly what you want, detailing the qualities of the person you want to
meet. Then stick to it, so you don't get lost and disappointed in the
"settle for" relationships.
"Many of my friends have written lists that include these common traits:
High values of honesty and integrity, good personality, similar
lifestyles and goals, emotional and financial maturity, spiritual
connection and, of course, a physical attraction," said Diane.
your odds the easy way "One of the most
important pieces of advice I received after my divorce was, 'Dating is a
numbers game,'" said Michelle. "Many times, you have to kiss a lot of
frogs to find your prince."
From the ten or twenty "good potential singles" you may run into at the
grocery store, work or singles' groups, Match.com instantly expands your
number of potential singles into the millions. Match.com dramatically
increases your odds of finding your prince or princess the easy way —
right from your computer. And you have their
free profile information from the start, so you're in the know
before you go.
Become your own ideal date
The law of attraction holds true in dating:
"To find your soul mate, you first have to be your own soul mate."
Treat the dating and Match.com journey as a great opportunity to grow
yourself, your interpersonal skills and your social life. When you can
become your ideal date, then you'll find yourself attracting the great
dates, friends and eventually the soul mate you've been waiting for.
Master the art of dating
It's just like any sport or business: Practice
makes perfect. In other words, you'll win the dating game easier and
more quickly by developing your dating skills. This includes screening
for good matches, learning the art of good conversation, making a good
first date impression, sharpening your communication and social skills
and even flirting. Check back often: Match.com offers ongoing advice and
tips to help you master the art of dating.
Win with an "A" in Attitude
One of the most important secrets to win the
dating game is the simplest of all: A positive attitude. That means
learning to be positive about yourself, your expectations and your
"You don;t always recognize a soul mate at first sight. Stay positive
about people and dating and give love a chance to bloom or you might
pass your real soul mate by," said Mark.
Keep the faith
Winton Churchill said, "Never give up. Never,
never give up." Why? Because as in all of life's important pursuits,
persistence pays off in the long run. The biggest secret to winning the
dating game is keeping the faith. Never stop believing that your new
social life and soul mate are just a
quick search away.
"I must have dated over one hundred women before I found my soul mate.
I'm so glad I kept giving it one more try," said Joe. "You can only win
if you have faith and stay in the dating game."
It's just that easy. Common sense secrets
can get you the results you need!
search for local singles today and meet the matches you've been
What are some other ways to meet Singles
in Virginia? Go to as many singles events as you
can. Variety is the key. Don't focus on any one type of group.
First: Meet young single professionals
at fundraisers, singles charity and civic organizations.
Second: Join sports leagues, singles
hiking, biking, outdoors, or adventures clubs.
Third: Join a church or religious
group for Jewish, Catholic, or Singles. Also check out singles cruises and
Newly divorced or single parent? Get
help at a singles support or divorce recovery group.
What about online dating? Check out
the information on Singlesonthego.com to learn how to place personal ads to
meet single men and women online. You'll also find great dating advice
for online personals and meeting singles by using various dating services,
dating agencies, matchmakers, introductions services. Go ahead, you can do
it!.....check out the singles scene in your area to find a new relationship
today! Check out the list of online dating services above categorized
by general, foreign/ethnic, religious, alternative, senior and single
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